"the more you love your decisions the less you will need others to love them" was the quote that was my fb status the other day. I agree - things like my current shaven hairstyle which I love, it doesn't bother me at all if others like it or not. Decisions I feel less secure about I often seek approval for, or feel sensitive to other's criticisms around.
Big decisions to be made on Sunday eve, so have filled the weekend with tons of fun. I have cancelled the blood-letting cos I couldn't answer affirmatively the question about being fit and well. There's going to be hanging out with my much missed boyfriend, but he's working the weeknd so I've been searching out other fun. I'm hoping to catch part of a friend's gig tonight, with my son, and maybe seeing a lovely person whilst I'm over that way, or it's a book read in the car if not. Tomorrow I've still to firm up meeting an awesome friend by day, then have planned an adventure for the eve. I'm not totally sure about the decision - a gig in Manchester that may be too mellow for the fun we need to have - it's the support artist I'm especially keen to see (that happened with gigs last year too). She's my gigging pal and I've taken her to one memorable gig before now that neither of us liked. But the fun is in the being together. She's also my camping pal, and we've had ace times even in adversity. In fact, trying to boil potatoes on a camping stove in a thunderstorm is such a happy memory tho it felt tricky at the time. Funny how a bit of looking back fondly can make all the difference!!
Whatever your decisions I hope you enjoy them to the max :D
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