defining

Jim Carrey's pinched my view on life ;)

http://mychannel957.com/this-one-minute-video-of-jim-carreys-commencement-speech-might-change-your-life-video/?trackback=fbshare_mobile_top

I also have taken comfort today in these words from a Pastor John Hagee:
"It is not what others say about you that defines who you are, it is what God says about you."

I don't like being judged but actually it's good to realise that's what's important is how I see myself, even if others see me differently. All I can continue to do is my best. I saw a surname on the internet today that is Goodenough, perhaps that's the surname to change mine to when my divorce finally comes through?