Karma

I'm finding it frustrating not having a bank card (it got cut up by the police when my lost purse was handed in last week, and I'm still awaiting the replacement) and so it's something I hadn't realised how much I take for granted and it's a good thing to raise my awareness about that. One friend suggested the fact that it was handed in – nothing missing – was karma, and I've been thinking about that. I'm not sure I agree with karma, although I now remember I enjoyed the TV comedy programme about karma, “My name is Earl” and must look out for episodes I've missed. Fundamentally, I don't think the fortunes or misfortunes that befall us are 'earned' in any way. For me, a favourite Christmas song is somewhat marred by the line “The Christmas we get we deserve.” Cos I just don't see how it can be true. If I hold to the view that we're all doing our best, then whether good or bad things happen can't be a judgement/consequence. Although I do think we all have influence. So, whilst I couldn't control whether the person who picked up my purse would pocket it or not, I do feel I've had a part to play in community building here where I live – the more we create places where people are listened to and affirmed, the more hope and love that is spread, the more that it grows and so will inevitably rebound.

I also think we can influence how we see each occurrence – that we all can have challenging experiences and can take them personally and lash out, or handle them differently. 

The quote I'm reflecting on most recently goes thus:

“False: When things change I will be happy. True: When I am happy, things will change.”

I'm not recommending forced happiness – I am advocating that we do what we can to not wait for our happiness. Enjoy!