All that matters

Some people really don’t seem to get where I’m coming from! I just had a conversation with someone who asked about the divorce and if I would “win” and I explained I didn’t feel it was about winning, but about staying loving throughout. They so didn’t understand that!! But that’s fine. We all have different takes on the world and why we’re here – I know I sometimes inspire people to think about things in alternative ways, just as I have my mind broadened when I hear other people’s perspectives. It can be affirming, when someone seems to understand where we’re coming from and maybe shares our view. And I appreciate that it can feel threatening sometimes if someone doesn’t – we can doubt ourselves, we can want to attack their view or defend our own.

For me all that matters in the end is how we love and I’m pleased with how well I’m holding on to that. To keep love, love, loving – myself, my immediate loved ones, and those far and wide I’ve never even met. And whether people “get” me or not really doesn’t matter J