There was lots of fascinating symbolism at the wedding. There was a big emphasis on it being the joining of two families and not just two individuals. I liked that tho wonder how it might work out in practice - families are such diverse bodies!! My favourite part in the Christian wedding services I've been to is when the whole congregation gets to join in and affirm their part in helping the couple. Maybe it's cos I take so much responsibility for stuff. Maybe it's cos I like it when everyone gets to join in. My favourite bit yesterday was when the couple shared mini sweets with each other to symbolise the sweetness of life. I didn't have to make any commitment, tho i felt very honoured to have been part of the celebrations.
I did find it hard. Especially when married women went to whisper blessings in the brides ear - it took me a moment to remember I'm not eligible. It's really hard not to feel a failure. Still, I can recognise those feelings and keep trying to move on. Life is still sweet, and at times very sweet, so I shall continue to celebrate that. Sweeties anyone?
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