It would be easy to feel rejected and dejected. Redundancy, an unsuccessful interview and not getting invited to things, these are the sort of situations where its possible to feel unwanted. Yet it depends what we choose to focus on.
An alternative view, and truth, is that I'm very much wanted. I've had numerous texts and emails today from people asking how I got on, and sending resilience and encouragement. Plus 4 calls from lovelies wanting to check how I was feeling when they heard I didn't get the job I had put considerable effort into applying for. My bosses have made such heart warming comments. My friends have reminded me that they know I'm ace.
It will all work out, it always does. In the meantime clearly I'm meant to be practicing my trust and patience. And putting my attention to where I am delighted in rather than fret about defending myself where I am not.
I hope you too have a tight team around you who remind you of your brilliance. Our support networks are so important :-)
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