Technically we become a mum at the moment of birth, prior to that we are known as mums-to-be. I'm not fully convinced myself, I think from when we realise we are pregnant, or even when planning to conceive and so changing behaviour for the health of the yet-to-be baby, the responsibility and joy of parenting kicks in.
My 'baby' is almost grown up and wanted to spend time on her birthday with some of the many other significant people in her life. We did have some good time together, but I also had time alone to reflect once more on how her birth day marked a massive change in my life too. I'm so proud of her, and proud of the part I've had to play in helping shape some of who she is.
I managed to have my bath and will continue to seek out time over the next few days to rebuild my capacity. It's pretty low at the moment and so I'm not able to reach out and offer myself in the way I often do. I know the things that help me recharge tho so will endeavour to make those happen.
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