what is

I didn't remember til after 7pm yesterday that it was my wedding anniversary. If I were still married that would be a terrible confession. But as I'm not, I'm taking it as a sign that I'm moving forward, focussed on the what is, not the what isn't.
I want to go and support one of my friends dancing this afternoon but wonder if I have enough energy to be out in town from then til the nighttime light procession. Also I'm aware the longer we're away from home the easier it is to spend money. The pull to read under the duvet, or start a jigsaw, is strong. But I could do those anytime...
Was good to go out, Preston pride was great, and I had many present moments. It's hard tho to stay with the what is,I really missed being with my kids today.