We were rationing the milk this morning, as last night my boy and I made a cheese sauce together as part of tea (yay, I love cooking with my boy!). So when I then spilt some at breakfast, I cried, despite the proverb. I disagree you see, I think there is purpose in crying when things are frustrating and sad, far better to get it out than push it down.
Things do feel both sad and frustrating at the moment. Today I shall wear my Teflon cloak to remind myself not to hold on to other people's stuff. Our "patterns", default ways of interacting, can be very useful. What is not useful (for us) is when we get so entrenched in whatever our modus operandi is, we don't feel able to _not_ do something. We act because we have always acted that way and sometimes don't even notice, or reflect and make choices.
I could get a medal in reflection (it would be shiny and reflective, obviously), but I know it's not everyone's thing.
Yay!!!!!! I got offered a part in HUG :D :D :D
http://veritystanden.com/hug.php
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